Having conflict doesn’t derail a relationship. But handling it badly can. And the same is true for difficulties with your in-laws. What matters is how you handle these challenges.
It’s challenging enough just getting along with one person most of the time, but we marry their whole family, too. You may be feeling like your spouse sides with your in-laws and this can leave you feeling left out, betrayed, or like you‘re not measuring up. These conflicts can be very hard on the spouse who feels caught in the middle between two people they love, and can have a negative impact on the marriage and on children.
You may communicate to resolve conflicts. The best thing to do for avoiding conflicts is to set realistic expectations.
Time heels many wounds. You must look for ways to cool down and distress. Try figuring out where you are going wrong.
Kindness can be the best cure for your problem. Even if you want to grit your teeth, try to say something nice. And if you really can’t say anything right then just keep quiet and smile.
Also in some cases there are possibilities when you or your in-laws may feel victimized for the problems being faced. It becomes more convenient that you and the opposite person would seek the help of counseling or by tarot your questions regarding staying together or separation would get an answer. Tarot has an objective of peace and happiness and would guide you with the same.
I as a counselor and tarot card reader can help you to find a way out by hearing you and decide what kind of help you actually need and will guide you with the solution out of this.